shronliu

True confidence comes when you know that regardless of what happens, you’ll be able to do your best even if it means you have to pick yourself up and try again.

This kind of confidence is far better than worrying, because you can’t control everything.

You’re far better off staying calm, because you know things will turn out all right over the long haul.

That’s a much more powerful and sustainable form of self-confidence.

如果自己很清楚，不管發生了什麼狀況，就算是必須整理自己然後再次出發，自己還是可以發揮全力，那麼就能建立真正的自信。

這樣的自信比擔憂要好很多，因為不可能什麼事都在自己的掌握中。

最好保持冷靜，因為自己其實很清楚，長期下來狀況一定會好轉。

這種自信的力量更強大，也更能持久。

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這段話送給妳、你，也給我自己…

要記住，自信比擔憂好很多，要正面的自我對話。

 想要獲得愛…… 就讓自己填滿愛，直到妳成為愛的磁鐵。